May 7, 2009

What the “h…” are they talking about?

Tentu banyak orang yang berfikir bahwa orang yang tinggal di luar negeri (native speaking countries), pasti akan berkembang bahasa Inggrisnya dan ketika pulang ke kampoeng halaman pasti bisa ngomong Inggris dengan cas…ciss…cusss.

Tapi ternyata kasusnya tidak selalu begitu. Semua tergantung, tergantung seberapa bolong telinganya, seberapa berani mencoba, dan seberapa sering latihan. Jadi sebenarnya pada akhirnya ada di luar negeri atau tidak, tidak menjamin bahwa seseorang akan menjadi good speaker of English. Contoh konkretnya adalah awakku dhewe. Meskipun aku sendiri adalah dari jurusan bahasa Inggris, dosen bahasa Inggris, sedang belajar pembelajaran bahasa Inggris, dan berada di English native speaking countries tapi aku tidak merasa kemampuan komunikasi bahasa Inggrisku ada perkembangan.  Aku sebenarnya sudah menyadari akan hal ini sejak semester satu, ketika aku selalu saja nervous ketika mengungkapkan pendapat dikelas, sebriliant apapun sebenarnya pendapat itu. Sejalan dengan waktu, tentu kadar ke-nervous-an itu berkurang. Dan aku cukup memiliki telinga yang bolong, sering mencoba, dan sering latihan oral communication di kelas dan diluar kelas. Dan tidak terlalu banyak masalah. Tapi, itu semua kan dalam konteks belajar, dalam konteks mempelajari ilmu yang memang sedikit banyak aku kuasai, jadi aku ‘ngeh’ dengan apa yang orang disekitarku bicarakan dan ‘ngeh’ dengan apa yang harus kubicarakan. Kalo dilihat dari teorinya Krahsen sich dalam konteks komunikasi yang ini aku memperoleh ‘comprehensible input’ dan bisa memproduksi ‘comprehensible output’.

Tapi kasus yang satu ini berbeda dengan yang itu. Kemarin aku ke ITS menanyakan apakah aku bisa mendapat program Ms Office untuk netbookku. Kata staff-nya ” You need to ‘logjob’ (krunguku)”. Aku mengklarifikasi kalau aku sudah ke perpus dan disarankan ke ITS, dia bilang ” Yes, that’s right. But we can’t just install it to your machine. You have to ‘logjob’. What you need to do is call the ITS desk and ‘logjob’.”

“All right” jawabku. Meskinpun aku sebenarnya nggak mudeng dengan apa yang dia maksud dengan ‘logjob’ yang dia sebut sampai tiga kali, aku berlalu dari situ karena dibelakangku banyak antrian. Sepanjang jalan ke kantor aku bertanya-tanya ‘opo se ‘logjob’ iki, aku gak tau krungu’.

Sampai di kantor aku coba buka website kampus dan mencari log job di page-nya ITS. Dan oooooalah maksude iku ‘Log a job’ alias daptar untuk mendapat layanan. Huh. Ternyata kupingku nggak bolong untuk masalah per ITS-an.

Hal yang sama ternyata terjadi lagi. Barusan aku taruh pantat di kursi depan komputer. Jenny teman sekantorku nyamperin. Dia bawa secangkir teh, tapi bukan buaku. Dia bilang ‘the jag jas boil if yu wud laik e kap of ti’.

Aku tersenyum dan bilang ‘Thank you”. Masiyo sebenarnya aku nggak seberapa mudeng dia bilang apa, aku bilang thank you aja. Dan aku tidak berusaha mengklarifikasi. Kenapa? aku sendiri juga tidak tahu mengapa?

Setelah tak pikir2, dan setelah mendengar bunyi air mendidih dari dapur, baru aku ngeh. Ternyata yang dia maksud, “The jug is boiling if you would like a cup of tea.” Huh.

Meskipun teori Krashen banyak diperdebatkan karena not researchable, tapi kedua pengalaman diatas membuktikan bahwa untuk bisa memahami dan belajar bahasa perlu ‘here and now’ condition to make input comprehensible. Dan ‘to make progress perlu i+1. Untuk kasus pertama aku ndak punya i jadi yo gak nyambung. Kondisi ‘here and now’ juga tidak terpenuhi karena yang dibicarakan adalah hal abstrak yang belum bisa ku acquire. Pada kasus kedua ada aspek ‘here and now’ dan ada aspek i (kosakata  jug, boil, cup, tea). Meski agak lemot tapi akhirnya paham apa yang dibicarakan Jenny, yang berarti ada comprehensible input.

Kedua contoh diatas hanyalah sedikit contoh dari gap-gap antara interlocutor dan masih banyak lagi pengalaman yang lain. apalagi pengalaman dari Abi, jauh lebih banyak lagi, yang pada intinya meski kita berada di luar negeri, tapi perbedaan antara ’schemata’ yang kita miliki dengan ‘what is actually spoken’ oleh native speaker sering memunculkan pertanyaan …:What the ‘h…..’ are they talking about?

April 7, 2009

Mukaku

Aku termasuk perempuan yang jarang sekali bercermin. Maklum, tidak seperti umumnya perempuan lain yang sangat concern dengan penampilan, aku termasuk mereka yang tergolong agak ignorant dengan masalah wajah dan penampilan. Makanya kalo pas aku dandan sering kali adik dan suamiku meledek, ‘tumben dandan’. Sering kali kalau memang muka sudah parah, jerawat mulai keluar dimana-mana dan kulit mulai kering, baru mulai rajin memperhatikan wajah. Dan kalau sedang beruntung punya duit, ke salon yang murah untuk cuci muka.

Banyak temanku yang bilang kalau aku tidak memperhatikan kepentingan suami karena tidak seberapa mengurus diri. Mereka bilang membahagiakan suami itu ibadah, jadi sebisa mungkin merawat diri supaya suami senang melihat. Aku bukannya tidak menerima argumen ini. Hanya saja sering aku perhatikan, kebanyakan para istri (hee dan ini termasuk aku juga), justru berdandan ketika hendak meninggalkan suami, misal ketika hendak kerja, shopping, arisan, pertemuan PKK, atau kondangan. Jadi aku meragukan kalau ada yang bilang merawat diri dan berhias untuk suami. Mungkin memang ada yang seperti itu, tapi aku yakin prosentaseku kecil.

Kembali ke masalah bercermin, baru saja aku melihat bayangan mukaku. Bukan di cermin, tapi di layar laptopku. Ketika hendak menghidupkan powernya, kulihat bayangan wajahku di laptop. Kulihat refleksi wajah ibuku sekitar dua puluh tahun yang lalu, berarti waktu itu aku kelas enam SD. Tapi wajah yang kulihat di layar laptopku tidak sepenuhnya seperti wajah ibuku yang selalu sejuk jika ditatap. Wajah itu terlihat agak ‘galak’ dan sedikit cemberut. Dan itu adalah refleksi wajahku.

Haa…aku tertawa sendiri. Ternyata aku sudah tua, tapi kok ya belum bisa mengendalikan diri. Anak boleh dua, muka boleh seperti ibunya, tapi tabiat masih seperti anak-anak saja. Astaghfirullah hal adzim.
Melihat wajahku yang semakin menua, dan mengingat betapa jiwaku belum dewasa, hah, aku mendesah. Banyak yang harus diperbaiki. Bukan saja penampakan wajah, tapi juga hati. Wajah harus diupayakan selalu cerah, dan hati diupayakan selalu meriah. Katanya suasana hati bisa terefleksikan lewat wajah. Kalo wajah kurang cerah berarti hati sedang gundah. OK lah, sudah saatnya berubah (mengquote power ranger, hee).

Akhirnya, mungkin ada benarnya jika para istri semestinya sering bercermin dan melihat wajah. Tapi bukan untuk menggusarkan munculnya jerawat atau kerutan di wajah. Akan tetapi lebih kepada melihat bahwa dengan melihat perubahan yang ada di wajah, kita semakin tahu kalau umur kian bertambah, dan kian mendekati tanah, dan saatnya untuk berubah dan menambah ibadah. Supaya kelak bisa mendapatkan Jannah. InsyaAllah.

January 23, 2009

The Rose Garden

This Saturday the TPA was held in Gus Honest house because he, too, invited all the kids to Farel’s birthday celebration. This Saturday the students were all far more excited than other Saturdays because they knew exactly they were going to get a lolly bag after the class. We, too, were excited because we knew for sure that we would then enjoy the delicious meatball Ning Erwin had prepared for us.

All the programs ran smoothly, the TPA class, the blowing of the candle, the hip-hip hurray, the messy face because of the birthday cake’s cream. Some of the younger kids were also successfully trigger small fight that then ended in hysteric cries. Well, anyway, doesn’t matter. Kids are and will always be curious, wanderous, and full of energy to explore and try things out, including trying to be friendly and cuddly, which then interpreted as ‘an attack’ by the other. They, too, are learning what a touch means, is it a hello or is it something else.

Don’t bother with that, soon, the moms could worked the ‘fight’ out and all were happily enjoying the meatball. This was at this time of ‘meatball gathering’ that an idea to make the celebration complete by having another picnic on the day came out. One of the moms said what about going to the rose garden today. It was the time when they were blooming and the best news of all, it was free to enter the venue. What a wonderful idea. Umi has always loved roses, they remind her of the first love novel she read when she was in high school, “the purple rose”. Roses also remind her of the roses on the front yard in Mbah Yut Om Ariq’ house where young Umi used to help Mbah Yut to pick them up and brought them to the market to sell (it was not a really nice memory for Umi, though. She often got hurt by the thorn of the roses).

Then finally that afternoon, off we went to the rose garden for another small picnic that day. There were three families going there.

The rose garden was a wonderful place to see. Apart of having free entry, this rose garden has a huge collection of roses from different varieties, different origins, and different colors and smells. Only moms and dads were really excited and interested to the roses, the kids on the other hand, enjoyed the large empty spot at the center of the cite running here and there, shouting to each other, and most excitedly playing hide and seek among different sections of the site. A wonderful day we had at the end.


January 8, 2009

The Art Show (part 2)

Now it came the time for the real art show. It started at six o’clock in the school hall. The principle officially the exhibition. She was trying her best to make her voice heard by all the audience since the microphone unfortunately did not want to cooperate. It did not work. After the opening speech from the principle, it was time to draw the art show raffle tickets. We bought some tickets but we did not really wish to win the draw because usually we are so far never lucky when it comes to draw. We are not sure if we are not the type of people who have the ‘talent’ to win draws or it is just a reminder from God that we may not draw on something. Well, whatever, but our intention, as always when it is about raffle, is to participate and have a little donation without even a slightest intention to win a draw (or possibly because of this we never get a draw???? Only God knows).

Once the draw finished, the drama group had its time to perform. They perform the story of the sleeping beauty. We did enjoy the performance and really appreciate it. They surely did a very good preparation. They performed well.

We then had a tour around the hall, seeing, watching, and sometime observing the work of arts of the students. Most of them are of very good quality, ranging from drawing, painting, craft and others. Even some of the teachers’ works were also put on display. The art teacher, surely, had worked very hard in assisting the students with their work. Most of the works were creative works with some recyclable materials. Some other materials certainly needed to be purchased.

What come into our mind after attending the exhibition was how appreciative the people, the teachers, and the school toward art. They really appreciate art, motivate and encourage students with their work, as well as providing the media. We just imagine if art would also be equally appreciated in our schools in Indonesia, maybe the students could be more creative and sensible. Well, hope it will be better in our education in the future. Amin.

Here are some of works displayed in the art show.


January 8, 2009

The Art Show (part 1)

It has been long time we since the last day we share our stories and experiences during our stay in Melbourne. So many things happened filling our busy days in summer holidays. There are so many things to tell and we just do not know where to start. Well then, it might be a good idea to start from the last week in Ridwan school.

His last week before the long summer holiday in Footscray North was filled with many activities that really took his time and energy, as well as anxiety and curiosity.

An activity that Ridwan was really excited about was the Art Show. It was an annual event in his school in which students art works from prep to grade six were displayed on an exhibition. It was a three-day exhibition conducted in the school hall.

Ridwan, too, like other students participated in the show. Even a day before the art show he was in charged of giving the announcement reminding that the art show was coming on the next day. It was not until that afternoon when Umi picked him up from school that Umi knew Ridwan was practicing and repeating the sentences he was going to say for the announcement in the morning assembly. It was when Ridwan showed her a piece of paper with a notice in it that Umi finally realised Ridwan had a task to do for the next morning assembly. Miss Marie gave the paper to Ridwan for him to learn and practice at home. And Umi, too, wanting his son to show his best, kept listening and asking him to repeat the sentences; just to make sure that he would say them correctly the next morning. Excitingly, listening to her brother practicing the sentences, Hanifah, too, could memorise them well.

Then, it came the time. Umi waked him up early that morning to make sure that he would not be late for the assembly. Three of us walking to school that morning still kept practicing the sentences. We were very excited that it did not bore us to repeat the same sentences again and again.

Umi and Hanifah stood next to the front row of the assembly to make sure that when it was time for Ridwan to give the announcement, we would not miss every single second of it. Umi, too, ready with her camera was ready to record the possibly only moment in Ridwan lifetime to be in front of other students, in a school, in a foreign country, giving an announcement. Umi would bring the record back to Indonesia and show grandpa and grandma how confident their grandson now is.

That time finally came. After a few words from the principle, Ridwan went forward and gave the announcement. It was correctly and clearly said, which was a relief for Umi. The intonation though seemed to be absent, it was flat. Anyway, doesn’t matter.

There was a big applause after he finished. Hanifah, too, was excited seeing his brother in front, and she also confidently repeated the sentences to herself and Umi:” There are no more sleeps until the art show. Come along tonight at six o’clock to see our work.”

December 2, 2008

Sacrifice

Eid ul Adha is coming.  It again reminds us of the sacrifice Abraham had given to Allah as the proof of his belief and faith. It was I believe really hard for Abraham. After waiting for a son from his wife for a very long time, he had to sacrifice his son, Ishmael,  for Allah. I even cannot think how hard it must have been because I myself cannot stand it if I have to leave my kids even for only a few days. Knowing that his son was going to die, even he himself had to slaughter his own son, ah I cannot imagine it.

But Allah never asks something man cannot do. Abraham proved his belief and faith to Allah, and Allah gave him a great help. Just in time the sword was going to touch Ishmael’ throat, Gabriel came down and gave Abraham a goat as the substitute for Ishmael. Abraham did not have to sacrifice his son, he had goat for the sacrifice instead.

This story shows how Allah really loves his men who loves Allah. Allah never neglects our feeling, our need and hopes. It is us who very often, even most of the time, forgets that Allah will always protects us, will always gives us the best in spite of good of bad times we have to go through. Very often we are not patient enough to wait for the time to comes, very often we feel we know what is best for us and forget that it is Allah who knows best.

With this coming Eid ul Adha, we do hope that we can be thankful to all we have got, no matter what it is, how big and small it is, we should be always thankful because there are a lot other people who cannot afford the simplest and smallest thing we have today.

Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar

Laailaha Illallahu Allahu Akbar

Allahu Akbar Walillahilhamdu

November 7, 2008

Beach…..beach

The weather in Melbourne is getting warmer this spring and the time for beach has come. Umi personally likes hills and gardens better than beach but kids just love to play with sand and water. Also, some of our friends managed to go the beach together and so off we went to two beaches in the last couple of weeks.

First we went to Williamstown beach. Umi has been there before, as far as Umi can remembered it was last summer. Before going Umi insisted that the beach was not so beautiful, no shade and very hot. Of course, because Umi was there in summer. But some friends who know this beach better said that there are some places around the area that are good.

Getting there, it was true that there are some good places around the area. Most importantly, the kids enjoyed it very much. We all enjoyed it, especially the picnic and the barbie. Ehmm yummm.

Then last week, we went to a beach in Geelong. It is much more beautiful than the previous one. There are some shades and BBQ places. There is also a Thomas train and the kids enjoyed taking the train to go around the area.

October 3, 2008

Tesselar Tulip Festival

Last Wednesday, 1st Oktober 2008 we went to Lilydale to visit the tulip festival. It took around an hour to reach the garden but what we saw there just worth the travel.

Getting there all in front of us was huge area of various tullips. They’re arranged in path lines of various colors from white, pale pink to dark purple. Ridwan and Hanifah were really excited to see the large area of flower. Hanifah was just really happy and really eager to pick up some but we could not do it because they’re not for picking.

In the area there was also a horse cariage for rent and we also had the chance to ride once. We had to lined up for more than fifteen minutes before finally had the chance to ride. Everybody wanted to ride and this made the horses a bit tired. Since we were riding in a family group we got extra discount for the fare. Lucky.

After that, it was time for Hanifah and Ridwan to pick up some tulips in the picking area. They were just excited to have the experience to actually pick up flowers with their own hands and had the opportunity to bring them home. We even still have the flowers in our lounge room at the moment.

Then, lunch time comes and time for picnic. It was just nice to have picnic lunch in the garden, reminding me to my childhood time when I used to bring food for my grandma in the rice field and we had lunch together in a small hut in the rice field. Enjoying lunch in the breeze of wind and the clolorful scenery of tulips, what a wonderful life.

Here are some of photoes taken in this festivals.

October 3, 2008

Eid Mubarak

Allahuakbar Allahuakbar Allahuakbar

Laailaahailallah hu Allahuakbar

Allahuakbar walillahilhamdu

TAkbir echoed around the lounge room in Pak Honest flat. We all gathered in his house to recite the takbir to welcome the Eid. We had both relieve and sadness at this moment; relieved for finishing the fasting in Ramadhan but sad that the Ramadhan, the holly month, for this year ended. We missed all the moment of ibadah, the moment of silaturahmi during Ramadhan, when we used to meet in break time and tarawih time. All of us here in Footscray felt the closeness as a big muslim family. We missed all those moments.

As morning comes on Wednesday, the 1st of Oktober 2008, all of us were ready for Eid el Fitr prayer in Melbourne University. Most of Indonesian Muslims gathered in the sport centre to perform the prayer and this was just another heartbreaking moment for me personally. This was the first time I celebrated the Eid far away from home. We used to gathered in my parents house with the whole big family. But anyway, here in Melbourne we have another big family of Melbourne Indonesian Muslims.

After prayer we had break fast together with various Indonesian traditional food; the ketupat, opor, balado, urap-urap and others. Hmmm nyam. This was just the right time and moment to again have the taste of Indonesian foods and to meet other Indonesian Muslims.

We do hope that next year our Ramadhan and Eid would be much better than this year. Amin.

For all the muslims thoroughout the world we would like to say

Taqabblallahu minna wa minkum, taqabbal ya karim.

Minal aidzin wal faidzin.

Happy Eid Mubarak.

September 9, 2008

Thanking Allah for what we’ve got

This morning I dropped Hanifah in the carer and there was a new girl introduced to me by the carer. She was about four years old. At first I did not notice anything special on her until she raised her head, smile, and said hello to me. I bowed to say hello to her and just notice that one of her eyes plastered with a bandage. This bandaged eye was so flat and I could not see any eyeball movement in this bandaged left eye and concluded …..oh no. A pair of glasses perched neatly on her face. “Hello,” she said, still smiling to me.

For a moment I did not answer her but then I replied ‘Oh, hello”. I did not reply immediately because her smile stroke me, her sincere smile jabbed deep into my heart. Oh, Allah, how sweet this little girl is and how sincere her smile is as if she does not bother with her sore eye. She has such pain but she keeps smiling as if she has no problem at all, she keeps enjoying her life in the way she can enjoy it although she can only see the beauty of the world through one eye.

This little girl brought me back to a realization of being the loved creature of Allah, reminded me on how much Allah has given me so far; the life, the health both physically and mentally, the opportunities, the wealth, and so many other good things Allah has given me as an expression of Allah’s love to me. But what have I done in return? Not much, not to say nothing, but all grumble when difficulties come. Oh Allah please forgive me for all the sin and bad deeds I have done, for all the grumble, for not thanking You for what I’ve got. Oh Allah thank you for introducing this little girl to me, for bringing the enlightenment through this little girl of what it means to have all Your gifts and to be thankful of whatever I have.